{"id":8898,"date":"2014-08-28T18:42:32","date_gmt":"2014-08-28T16:42:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/vivesur.com\/wpblog\/?p=8898"},"modified":"2014-08-28T18:42:32","modified_gmt":"2014-08-28T16:42:32","slug":"patience","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vivesur.com\/wpblog\/patience\/","title":{"rendered":"Patience"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You feel a lot of love for someone and they do not take it. What do you do?<br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/vivesur.com\/wpblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/wpid-10599550_10152309631502536_5490158437408333215_n-2014-08-28-18-42.jpg\" alt=\"wpid-10599550_10152309631502536_5490158437408333215_n-2014-08-28-18-42.jpg\" width=\"720\" height=\"720\" \/><\/span><br \/>\n-Get Frustrated<br \/>\n-Turn the love into hatred and wish for revenge.<br \/>\n-Again and again remind them how much you love them and how little they love you.<br \/>\n-Become fussy and cranky<br \/>\n-Throw tantrums<br \/>\n-Feel humiliated and try to protect your respect.<br \/>\n-Resolve never to love again.<br \/>\n-Feel hurt and mistreated<br \/>\n-Try to be aloof and indifferent<\/p>\n<p>\u2026 and you have seen that none of these work! They only make it worse.<\/p>\n<p>what is the way out of this? How can you maintain your lovingness?<\/p>\n<p>-Have patience.<br \/>\n-Be centered and limit your expression of love. Sometimes over expression of love puts people off.<br \/>\n-Change your expression of love.<br \/>\n-Take it for granted that they love you and accept their style of expression<br \/>\n-Genuinely acknowledge their love for you. This will turn your demand into gratefulness. The more grateful you are in life, more love comes your way.<br \/>\n-Know that hurt is part of love and take responsibility for it.<br \/>\n-Realize that when you move away from your center, you will feel miserable and that the nature of worldliness is misery.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You feel a lot of love for someone and they do not take it. What do you do? -Get Frustrated -Turn the love into hatred and wish for revenge. -Again&hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivesur.com\/wpblog\/patience\/\" class=\"apace-readmore-link\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1,8],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vivesur.com\/wpblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8898"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vivesur.com\/wpblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vivesur.com\/wpblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivesur.com\/wpblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivesur.com\/wpblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8898"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivesur.com\/wpblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8898\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vivesur.com\/wpblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8898"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivesur.com\/wpblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8898"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivesur.com\/wpblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8898"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}